How To Avoid The 5 First Date Mistakes Men Make
Let's face ityou never get a second chance to
make a first impression!
That's why, if you want to take things further with a woman, you need to show her your best
on the very first date. And in actual fact, there are 5 things that men consistently do on first dates that totally destroy their chances of
seeing the woman again, and the worst part is they think they're doing it right!
Avoid the following 5 mistakes to increase your
chances of success on your first date:
MISTAKE #1 -- BUYING GIFTS
Bringing chocolate or flowers on a first date isn't the best idea - especially if you've just met the woman! She's there to get to know YOU. Women are always asking themselves "what does THAT mean?" And in this case it's, "He bought me flowers because he
likes me, but he doesn't even know anything about me yet! A little suspicious.
MISTAKE #2 -- BEING MR. SERIOUS
When in the presence of a potential date, men often become boring, instead of keeping up the friendly vibe they have with their friends. They won?t make jokes or laugh with the woman, they won?t play around like they do with their friends and they generally take things a little too seriously. Why do men change their behavior around women, often without even realizing they?re doing it? Because they fear losing their only chance with the girl of their dreams, they try and play the safe side, which results in a ?Mr. Serious.?
MISTAKE #3 -- CONDUCTING AN INTERVIEW
When men become "Mr. Serious" they often fall into "job interview conversation mode." Make sure you reserve questions like, "So where do you work?" or "How many brothers and sisters do you have?" for the future, after you've already had a lot of fun
and made the sparks fly. Instead, talk about your hobbies, interesting stories and fun stuff. Avoid anything too deep for a long period of time. On a first date, it can make things a little depressing. Talk like you've known each other for years (as if you don?t need to do the awkward 20-questions quiz.) Of course you can ask basic questions, but
never make it the main focus of your date. Focus on fun.
MISTAKE #4 -- BEING TOO NEEDY & DIRECT
Without realizing it, many guys turn their dates off by trying a little too hard. For example: Men will lean into a woman?s personal space, and ask, "so do you like me?" or constantly change his opinion to seek her approval and make her like him. Big mistake. Ironically, it's leaning back, staying cool and calm, being a little cheeky, interesting,
mysterious and comfortable with yourself that actually gets a woman's attention and keeps her interested.
MISTAKE #5 -- GOING TO BORING PLACES
If your date finds the night boring, you're finished. When it comes to having fun on first
dates, nothing is more important than what you do. And while dinners and movies are nice, it's really hard to leave a great impression in these settings. Why? Because they set a very "proper tone" that's hard to turn into fun and playful. And unless you're a super funny, intelligent and interesting guy, dinner and movie dates just aren't the best
place to take your date. Instead, go to fun places like mini-golf parks, carnivals, parks, or even better, come up with your own unique and fun ideas.
So in essence, while there are many factors to having a successful date, a great date idea really helps you do many of them naturally! Remember, where you take a woman on a first date can be the difference between a great night and a dating disaster! Choose wisely!
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