If you are interested in dating a native Korean girl, not just a westernized girl of Korean descent, you should observe some unwritten rules.

What do Korean girls expect from you

Dating Korean girls require some aptitude and skill or you will feel frustrated or confused about her feelings towards you. Korean girl expect the opposite party to initiate communication and ask her out on all the dates unlike western women who are more liberal.

The men are always the one who schedules the dates. If you feel that the Korean girl is blowing hot and cold towards you or lack of initiative in terms of texting you or initiating dates, this is normal as a Korean girl will not be seen as aggressive in the initial dating stage.

Difference between Korean dating and western dating

Korean girls that actually live in Korea or have spent a significant amount of their lives in Korea like to take things slowly. They do not rush into a relationship and Korean girl take things at a slow pace even when they are in a relationship.

In western culture, kissing someone is natural to all couples after a few dates. However in Korea, kissing is a very big event for a Korean girl even if it is just on the cheeks. Korean girls like a kiss on the forehead as it is seen as very romantic and meaningful.

What should you look out for when dating a Korean girl

You should get to the point where you are very close friends before you even ask her out. When you are in a relationship, take things very slowly or whatever pace she is comfortable with. Once you have officially become a couple, go on a few dates before holding her hand or putting your arm around her shoulders. Only after seven to ten dates (as a guide only depend on each individual) should you kiss her.

What do Korean women want

Korean women like conservative men who are in for long term relationships, not those who are crazy for one night stands. If you want to be successful in dating Korean girls, you have to be respectful and approach them with some knowledge about Korea’s culture and language. Korean girls love it when guys do that.

Korean girls tend to take appearance very seriously when deciding if they are interested in a guy or not. You should have good personal hygiene. Korean women find foreign men appealing and exotic even if you are not the most handsome guy, you will still be seen as good-looking in Korea.

Misunderstanding Korean girls

Do not assume that a Korean likes you just because she gave you her phone number. Korean girls perceived exchanging phone numbers with you as some form of language exchange to practice English with you. Sometimes a Korean girl will give you her number without you asking.

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