If you have tried dating Korean girls, you may hit some stonewall and find it hard to understand them. There are basically two type of Korean girls although these are generalizations.

Korean girls Type 1

These Korean girls are fashion crazy who wear designer clothes, wear lots of makeup, likes to go clubbing and a party animal. They love designer branded handbags and shoes and need high maintenance.

These type of Korean girls like to date western guys as long as they are white.

Korean girls Type 2

The Type 2 Korean girls are more reserved, shy and go to church.  For fashion-wise, they dress normally with no heavy makeup unlike those Type 1 Korean girls.

Korean girls mood swing

One of things you must look out for when you are dating Korean girl is her mood swing. A Korean girl mood can change very fast, from one second she can be friendly, smiling, accommodating, submissive and nice to be around, the next moment she can be unpredictable.

For example, she may not answer your calls and text messages, cancel dates at last minute, or act like she is uncomfortable during your date and make an excuse to return home quickly.

Reason for Korean girls mood swing

The reason why Korean girls have mood swing is because a lot of korean girls have low self esteem and reserved, especially when they date those who can speak English only.

Due to the social culture of not making mistakes in front of strangers and not feeling embarrassed because they have to try to speak good English during the date which stresses her out and make her uncomfortable.

Korean girls expect you to pay

Even if it is the Korean girl who initiated the date, as a guy, you are expected to treat her. Do not be culture shocked when a Korean girl just stand there and expect you to place the order and pay for the date.

It is part of the social norms that the male pay for date to show that he can afford and impress her date. Although it is old fashion thinking and some westerners may get turn off, however as they said; “when in Rome, do as the Romans do”.

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If you are curious about Asian culture and want to find a Korean girlfriend, below are some tips that might help you in your quest.

1) Try to understand Korean culture

The mantra : “you must understand Korean culture” in order to understand your Korean girlfriend is very important. You got to understand and accept the Korean mindset and she will appreciate it very much.

Most young Koreans understand and speak little English due to their harsh education system. Korean social norm dictate that it is  embarrassing  to show their weakness to strangers.

Korean are shy and afraid of making mistakes in front of strangers however they know it is difficult to learn a foreign language. Try to learn some of Korean language and culture and Korean girls will definitely show great interest in you.

2) Do not compare Korean girls with other Asian girls

Never compare something Korean with Chinese or Japanese in a negative way. You should never pass negative comments about Korean in front of her. Do not even try to sing praises about her by comparing her to your Chinese, Japanese ex-girlfriends.

Young Koreans have a mixed feeling toward their national identity. They are proud of what Korea achieved for the past decades however due to the “small nation complex”, they still reveal a sense of inferiority and frustration.

3) You reap what you sow

Many foreigners thought they got a free pass to misbehave when they arrive in Korea. However most Koreans will sneer at those foreigners hanging out at Itaewon which is notorious for “Paradise for losers where Korean women are ruined”. If you are a foreigner going to Korea, avoid Itaewon.

Tourist traps best known to foreigners like Itaewon or Hong dae area are in fact the least favorite places for cool and rich Korean guys to hang out.

4) Chaste Korean girls are hard to get

Forget about those ignorant foreigners who boast Korean girls are easy prey. Those easy Korean girls hanging out with foreigners in Itaewon or Hong dae clubs are simply “losers” to the eyes of Korean guys.

Affluent and chaste Korean girls will not easily get hook up with foreigners as lovers. You can find high class Korean ladies in upscale places like Cheongdam dong or Karosu-gil in Shinsa dong. These pretty and elegant Korean ladies are hanging out  inside luxury cafes or restaurants privy to upscale Koreans.

5) Personal Hygiene

Foreigners are quite hairy by Korean standard. Try to shave and trim your body hair. Too much body hair might turn off Korean girls. Korean girls are extremely super sensitive about foreigners body odor. Bathe and wear deodorants.

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If you have been successful in your Thai online dating, you might consider taking your relationship with your Thai girlfriend to the next level which is marriage. However there are many foreigners who misunderstand “Sin Sodt” the term for thai bride dowry and equate it to purchasing a Thai bride.

What is Sin Sodt?

Sin sodt is a “Bride Price”, paid to the bride or her family by the groom prior to the wedding. It is a form of Thai marriage custom to use Sin Sodt as a form of paying respect to the bride’s family for bringing up their daughter.

The reason is because poorer Thai families sell land or borrow money to put their kids through university or simply put food on the table. The amount paid for Sin Sodt represent the investment that the parents have put into their daughter.

However some foreigners are disgusted about talking money when they are going to marry their Thai girlfriend and even refused to pay.

Why is there a need for Sin Sodt?

The most commonly stated rationale for the bride price in Thailand is that it allows the groom to demonstrate that he has enough financial resources to support the bride and possibly her family after the wedding. In many cases, especially when the amount is large, the parents of a Thai bride will return all or part of the bride price to the couple in the form of a wedding gift following the engagement ceremony.

However it is socially unacceptable to ask for the money back or expect it to be fully returned.

Because Sin Sod is a reflection of her, you, her family and your family.  A Thai woman lives to make her family proud, to show the other villagers that they are a good family, that they are to be respected.

How much is the price of Sin Sodt?

The price is usually agreed between the two families and usually consists of three elements: cash (millions of Thai baht), Thai (96.5% pure) gold, and Western tradition of a diamond ring.

6 factors that influence the price of Sin Sodt

1. Family Name
2. Education
3. Prior Marital Status
4. Dependants
5. Job
6. Age

If the bride’s family is rich, the Sin sodt will most likely be for show and be returned after the wedding. If a Thai woman is university educated then you will be looking at more than 200,000 Baht which is the moden standard amount.

Why you should pay Sin Sodt

To marry a foreigner with a Sin Sod of less than 200,000 Baht would be quite a loss of face, not just for her but also for you.
The bottomline is if you can afford to pay, then pay. Do not be stingy and make an excuse that by paying Sin Sodt, it will comprised your western marriage traditions.

If you marry into Thai culture then you should expect to pay at least something. Sin Sodt is largely about face and flexible arrangement can be made with your Thai girlfriend’s family.

Supposing you offer nothing for the Sin Sodt, then you will be branded as a cheap charlie with label such as “Farang kee-nock”, “Keniiow” (stingy) and it will make your Thai girlfriend’s family look really bad in front of the villagers.

If you truly love your Thai girlfriend, you should not do something that hurt or insult your Thai girlfriend or her family.

If that is really the case, then you should think before getting involved with a woman from another culture. The reason is because if you marry a Thai woman, marriage is a big event for her and you should really understand the Thai culture first.

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In the previous post on “How to attract Thai girls with Thai love phrases”, we hope that it is easy for you to practice some basic Thai love phrases in your Thai online dating adventure. If you already have an online Thai girlfriend or you want to take your Thai relationship to the next level, then you can proceed with advanced level of Thai love phrases.

How to pronounce these Thai Love phrases

The words in the bracket are the romanization of the Thai language. You can directly pronounce the alphabets in the bracket and you will produce the effect of speaking the desired love phrases in Thai language.

Advanced Thai love phrases

Below are some common Thai love phrases which you will use often:

I miss you. (pom kit teung koon) ผมคิดถึงคุณ

I miss you all the time. (pom kit-teung koon dta-lod way-la) ผมคิดถึงคุณตลอดเวลา

You make me happy. (koon tam hai pom mee kwarm sook) คุณทำให้ผมมี ความสุข

Love at first sight. (ruk raek pop) รักแรกพบ

I still remember the first moment  we met. (pom yung jum krang-raek tee row pob gun dai) ผม ยังจำครั้งแรกที่เราพบกันได้

I want you to be happy. (pom dtong gan hai koon mee kwarm sook) ผมต้องการให้คุณมีความสุข

Can you be my girlfriend? (ben faen gub pom dai mai) – For yes the reply is “dai” and for no the reply is “mai dai” เป็น แฟนกับผมได้ไหม? ได้ / ไม่ได้

You are my sweetheart. (koon keu yot -ruk kong pom) คุณคือยอดรักของผม

You are the one I have been waiting for. (koon bpen kon dieow tee pom ror koi) คุณเป็นคนเดียวที่ผมรอคอย

I am serious about you. (pom jing jai gup koon) ผม จริงจังกับคุณ

I think about you all night. (pom kit teung koon tung keun) ผมคิดถึงคุณทั้งคืน

I want to meet you. (pom dtong-gan/yaak pop koon) ผม ต้องการ/อยากพบคุณ

I want to hug you. (pom dtong-gan/yaak got koon) ผม ต้องการ/อยากกอดคุณ

Can I kiss you? (pom kor joop koon dai mai) ผม ขอจูบคุณได้ไหม

I want to be with you. (pom yaak yoo gup koon) ผม อยากอยู่กับคุณ

Do you miss me? (koon kit teung pom baang mai) คุณ คิดถึงผมบ้างไหม?

I won’t forget you. (pom ja mai leum koon) ผม จะไม่ลืมคุณ

When do you want me to come back? (koon dtong gan hai pom glup ma muea rai) คุณต้องการให้ผมกลับมาเมื่อไหร่

Hope that you will be successful in your search for a Thai girlfriend. Good luck!
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For those of you who need to speak the language of love in Thai, here is a small dictionary of Thai love phrases that will impress and amaze your new Thai girlfriend. If you are searching for a Thai girlfriend in Thai online dating sites, you should have an arsenal of Thai love phrases ready by your laptop.

There is always a few thousand Thai women online on ThaiLoveLinks.com and it will be very easy for you to chat with a few Thai women online.

Why learning Thai love phrases is important

By learning some Thai language,  it show to a Thailand woman that you are more committed and interested in her culture. It is very important to express your feelings for her in a clear way that she will understand. If you try to use online translation tools such as Google Translation, your meaning  might be lost because of language conversion.

Telling her some Thai love phrases show that you cared for her so much that you are willing to take the time to learn her Thai language. If you are having problems pronouncing the Thai phrases, you can also ask your Thai girlfriend for help which will further enhance and make your relationship more concrete.

However please use these Thai love phrases sparingly, as over usage will make you look a like a slick playboy and turn off potential dating partners.

How to pronounce these Thai Love phrases

The words in the bracket are the romanization of the Thai language. You can directly pronounce the alphabets in the bracket and you can produce the effect of speaking the Thai language.

Initial phase of Thai dating

These Thai love phrases are suitable when you just met a Thai girl.

Can you go out with me? (bai tee-o gup pom dai mai) – For yes the reply is “dai” and for no the reply is “mai dai” ไป เที่ยวกับผมได้ไหม? ได้ / ไม่ได้

Do you like me? (koon chorp pom reu blao) – For yes the reply is “chorp” and for no the reply is “mai chorp” คุณชอบ ผมหรือเปล่า? ชอบ / ไม่ชอบ

Do you have a boyfriend ? (koon mee faen reu yung) – For yes the reply is “mee” and for no the reply is “yung mai mee” คุณ มีแฟนหรือยัง? มี / ยังไม่มี

I am single (pom yung sot) ผมยังโสด

You are very beautiful. (koon suay mak mak) คุณ สวยมากๆ

You are very cute. (koon na-ruk mak mak) คุณ น่ารักมากๆ

I like your smile. (pom chorp roi yim kong koon) ผม ชอบรอยยิ้มของคุณ

Can you tell me your phone number please? (kor ber tor koon dai mai) – For yes the reply is “dai” and for no the reply is “mai dai” ขอเบอร์โทรคุณได้ไหม? ได้ / ไม่ได้

Do you want to go and eat with me? (bai gin kao gub pom mai) – For yes the reply is “bai” and for no the reply is “mai bai” ไป กินข้าวกับผมไหม? ไป / ไม่ไป

Do you want to go to watch a movie? (bai doo nung gup pom mai) – For yes the reply is “bai” and for no the reply is “mai bai” ไป ดูหนังกับผมไหม? ไป / ไม่ไป

Your eyes are so beautiful. (duang dtar kong koon suay mak) ดวงตาของคุณสวยมาก

Can I hold your hand? (pom kor jub meu koon dai mai?) ผมขอจับมือคุณได้ไหม?

Have a nice dream. (fun dee na) ฝันดีนะ

Take care of yourself. (do lae dtua eng duay na) ดูแล ตัวเองด้วยนะ

Can I see you tomorrow? (proong nee jer gun dai mai) – For yes the reply is “dai” and for no the reply is “mai dai” พรุ่ง นี้เจอกันได้ไหม? ได้ / ไม่ได้

Are you free tonight? (keun nee koon wang mai) – For yes the reply is “wang” and for no the reply is “mai wang” คืน นี้คุณว่างไหม? ว่าง / ไม่ว่าง

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